I've had a few Defensive Pacts with nations so if we go to war, they will join me. I have since gone to war with someone and now I'm expecting the people I've made defensive pacts to help join me but they are not. I've tried to discuss with them an alliance against the nation I want to go to war with but that nation isn't available. How do I get this country to join me??? I have arguably the 3rd best military and I'm trying to go to war with the 2nd best military but I've made a pact and friendly offers with the 1st best military (best by far) to join me but I don't see any of their units helping out.